Do you teach your toddler to talk?

  • Saturday, January 02, 2010 7:09 PM
    Message # 262858
    Deleted user
    You may have been acquainted to, heard stories, or your toddler him/herself about 2 year olds conversing like 6 yo's.  Its amazing, isn't it?  Would you reckon that that skill was taught or acquired from everyday living? 

    After you answer the above question, here's a very interesting and insightful video for you, too. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.  :D
    Toddler and Preschool speech milestone et al:
    http://www.videojug.com/interview/toddler-and-preschool-milestones
    Last modified: Saturday, January 02, 2010 7:09 PM | Deleted user
  • Tuesday, January 12, 2010 10:36 PM
    Reply # 267704 on 262858
    Thanks Nina for posting this. It is a great video and answers many of the questions that I had around language development in this age range.
  • Wednesday, January 20, 2010 8:55 PM
    Reply # 271563 on 262858
    Hey, there!
     
    This is a very interesting topic to me.  Thanks for bringing it up!  :-)
     
    My daughter, Ever, who is almost 18 months, said DaDa at around 4 months, at first, seemingly as babble, but within a few days, obviously referring to her daddy.  By the time she was 9 months, she had a handful of words that anyone could understand.  At 12 months, she had over 50 words, including "alligator" of all things!  In the past 6 months, we have lost count of all her new words, which she is acquiring every day.  She uses 2-4 word sentences, such as "I don't know," "Where'd you go?", "Pleased to meet you," "Want some," "Num-num's, YES!" and many others. 
     
    We have not done anything specially to get her to talk this way.  We just spend lots of time with her, and talk to her just like we'd talk to anyone else.  We also take her out and let her meet lots of new people all the time.  She is friendly and personable, and will talk almost as readily to strangers as she does with family, given just a few minutes to warm up to the new faces and surroundings.  She is fortunate enough to have a full-time mom and dad at home with her every day, and to have two awesome teenage siblings, who spend lots of time with her.  We read to her on demand, and she adores books with lots of pictures that she can label.
     
    Ever is my third early talking baby, and is typical of babies on my mom's side of the family.  I really think that most of her precociousness is hereditary, but I am sure it doesn't hurt to have many people talking around and to her all the time.  I also think she benefits from our genuine interest in what she has to say.  I have yet to meet another baby (outside our family) who is as communicative as my children.  I would love to, though!  I think it would be fascinating to watch such tiny talkers interacting with one another.  Anyone else out there have a little chatterbox?
     
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    Spiral out!!!
    Sylph
    spiralsylph@gmail.com

  • Wednesday, January 20, 2010 9:58 PM
    Reply # 271589 on 262858
    Claire (Administrator)

    Katelyn has always been a little chatterbox. She is much more talkative with us or people she is comfortable with.  I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that she is always out with me at events and playdates hearing everyone conversing around her.

    I definitely agree that feeling like they are understood will encourage them to communicate more, I've always been tuned in to Katelyn's language signs which makes her feel more confident communicating with us.

    Right now she is two & a half and she speaks full sentences, she is fluent in both Russian & English.    So now, guess what! She started being really bossy and talking back to us

    an example, I will say, "Katelyn it's time for nap" - her response... "No, no mommy, it's not nap time, yet. It's time to paint. Wait here! I will be right back"... at this point she goes to her paint supplies brings it back to me and says with a smile... "see - it's time to paint, OK" 

    Can I say I did anything to help her development along? absolutely, I read to her 20 mins twice a day (since she was 2 months old). She is out hearing me converse with other people. We do a lot of singing and rhymes (usually at a mommy & me program).  but most of all, we offer her a loving, supportive environment and even when she is just babbling,we acknowledged her and responded to her - which validated her and encouraged her to tell us more.  

    Can I take credit for her development, no... not really, in the end it's about the IQ she was born with, but there are ways for us as parents to stimulate and encourage our children to learn, especially through play. 

    Can you as a parent MAKE your child smarter - not really, but can you help them to reach their potential... Yes!

  • Monday, March 08, 2010 9:37 PM
    Reply # 304963 on 262858
    Deleted user
    Thanks for the wonderful threads, ladies!  Your insights and experiences are so wonderful to be heard.  Its almost magical to hear them talk much so converse with us whether they agree or disagree with us. I wonder if it would be this sweet when they're 10 yo's. Would we ask  them to shut up?  LOL
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