Any tips on brushing 19 months old teeth without the battle each time

  • Monday, January 04, 2010 9:00 PM
    Message # 263795

    Happy new year everyone!

    Does anyone have any strategies that they use to brush their toddler's teeth without the world war 3 battle?  My daughter is 19 months old.

    Currently, I let her brush by herself first and then I take over to do a thorough work.  The me taking over part is usually a battle 2x a day.  I have tried letting her brush my teeth and then taking turns, both of us brushing together looking in the mirror, and also brushing her doll/teddy's teeth.  I am reduced to having to pin her down to do this.  I hate doing this, but I don't know what else to do or use.  HELP!

    Linda

  • Tuesday, January 05, 2010 3:11 PM
    Reply # 264089 on 263795
    My son is the exact same age and he loves to brush his teeth and throws a tantrum when we take his toothbrush away before he is willing to give it up.  He does not allow us to brush his teeth for him and after speaking to his dentist I believe it is okay.  He has the brush going for so long and also chews it so really they are removing the plaque.  My dentist is happy with this for now so I'm not worried either. I think that by the time they are old enough to listen and take proper instructions that is when we really need to worry.  Remember this are 'baby teeth' and not permanent. 
    This is just my take on it but perhaps not everyone may agree.
    Best of luck to you and I hope it gets easier.
  • Tuesday, January 05, 2010 7:36 PM
    Reply # 264231 on 263795
    My son is nearly 22 mos and we have some challenges with brushing teeth too. My son wants to do it himself most nights, some times it is a fight, other nights he brushes for 10 seconds, other time he lets me brush them as long as I like. It is never the same 2 nights in a row. Can be quite frustrating! I do have a close friend who consulted a pediatric dentist who said that proper brushing is important so the adult teeth grow in well. Plus germs and all that live in the mouth need to be brushed away. I have heard some Moms have success with toothpaste if your kid happens to like it. So that may be one suggestion to try. Hope some of that is helpful to you! If not at least you know you are not alone!
    Good luck!
  • Thursday, January 07, 2010 9:14 PM
    Reply # 265328 on 264089
    Suzette Wong wrote:My son is the exact same age and he loves to brush his teeth and throws a tantrum when we take his toothbrush away before he is willing to give it up.  He does not allow us to brush his teeth for him and after speaking to his dentist I believe it is okay.  He has the brush going for so long and also chews it so really they are removing the plaque.  My dentist is happy with this for now so I'm not worried either. I think that by the time they are old enough to listen and take proper instructions that is when we really need to worry.  Remember this are 'baby teeth' and not permanent. 
    This is just my take on it but perhaps not everyone may agree.
    Best of luck to you and I hope it gets easier.

    Thank you for the info! 

    It is nice to know that I am not alone.  I see my dentist this weekend and I will ask him for any suggestions.

     

    Linda

    Last modified: Thursday, January 07, 2010 9:14 PM | Linda
  • Thursday, January 07, 2010 9:23 PM
    Reply # 265332 on 264231
    Mireille Millette wrote:My son is nearly 22 mos and we have some challenges with brushing teeth too. My son wants to do it himself most nights, some times it is a fight, other nights he brushes for 10 seconds, other time he lets me brush them as long as I like. It is never the same 2 nights in a row. Can be quite frustrating! I do have a close friend who consulted a pediatric dentist who said that proper brushing is important so the adult teeth grow in well. Plus germs and all that live in the mouth need to be brushed away. I have heard some Moms have success with toothpaste if your kid happens to like it. So that may be one suggestion to try. Hope some of that is helpful to you! If not at least you know you are not alone!
    Good luck!


    Thanks for the info!

    It appears alot of people have problems too.  I have her using training toothpaste by orajel with no fluroride(????) for toddlers.  I see my dentist this weekend I will ask him.  I have heard of some mom's using children's electric toothbrush.

     

    Linda

     

     

  • Tuesday, January 12, 2010 1:34 PM
    Reply # 267499 on 263795
    Deleted user
    Hi There,

    My daughter was the same way, we used to have to pin her down to brush her teeth as well, but she eventually came around.  We used MANY different tactics and sometimes still have to to get her to brush - we used to sing ABC for the top and bottom, or look for animals in her mouth - " I think I see a tiger in there, is that a tiger?...etc"  Sometimes we even look for family members in there.  The goofier you can make it the better, because if they're laughing, they probably won't mind.  Good luck!
  • Friday, February 05, 2010 11:07 AM
    Reply # 280737 on 263795
    Deleted user
    I think they just like the action of brushing, so give them 'your' tooth brush to brush your teeth while you're brushing theirs - and they are happy :)
  • Friday, February 05, 2010 2:33 PM
    Reply # 280893 on 263795
    Claire (Administrator)

    Hi Linda,

    What about brushing her teeth at a different time?  If it's a part of her bed-time routine, she may see this a signal that the day is over and she is resisting. Mix it up a bit.

    I agree with Rebecca, make it fun and goofy. Katelyn resisted a bit when she was Hope's age, but now she is fine. However, she does have a preference on who brushes her teeth. Most of the time she prefers to have dada brush her teeth. If he's not around then she'll allow me to do it, but if he's there she wants him to do it.

    Try having dad brush her teeth (if he's available) and see if this makes a difference. Also try to me calm about it, kids sense our anxiety and react accordingly.

    It is very important to take care of our babies teeth even from a young age. York Region has dental clinics where you can take your babies to get checked if you are worried about their teeth. I used them for Katelyn when she was 13 months and they were great.  If you are interested, you can call York Region Health Connection for more info.

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