Are pets important to children?

  • Friday, August 06, 2010 4:27 PM
    Message # 397996
    Deleted user
    Does your little one love to be around your dog or bird or iguana? Does he/she likes to cuddle and pet the cat or guinea pig or hamster?  Do you think having pets around teach your baby or toddler to be humane, i.e. learning respect for creatures among other virtues? Or maybe you're better off without them?  Let us know your thoughts - yes, no, maybe whichever your heart tells ya.  Insights will be greatly appreciated. 

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  • Friday, August 13, 2010 12:49 AM
    Reply # 402076 on 397996
    We adopted a chinchilla this January, and Ever, who was 18 months old at that time, was enchanted by his soft, adorable appearance, and his hilarious, acrobatic antics.  He came pre-named, "Whiskers," but Ever couldn't pronounce the word "chinchilla," at the time, and started calling him "Choodly-da-da," which has been his name ever since!

    He was friendly and adventurous from the beginning, and would hop on her lap for a few seconds, only to hop off again, when she would try to hold on to him.  Over the months, she has grown to understand his ways, and learned how to entice him to come to her by offering him treats, rather than trying to grab him, as she used to do.  

    Just last week, she realized that if she lay down on the floor, face down, and put her head down, he would climb on top of her back, and make his way up to her head, where he would snuffle in her ears, and nibble them gently.  She giggles like crazy when he does this, and tries to hold still, so as not to frighten him away!  I think he has made a wonderful addition to our household, and to our family.
  • Wednesday, August 18, 2010 10:36 PM
    Reply # 405332 on 397996

    My daughter is only 7 months old but she is very entertained by watching our two dogs.  She smiles and laughs at them all the time and follows their movements with great interest.

    I think pets are important to children as they teach the children how to be gentle and pets give them a chance to love living beings other than people.  When they are old enough, children can also learn responsibility by taking on some of the care of their pet(s). 

    The best benefit to having a pet may be that the child has some "one" they can confide in any time; someone who won't tell their secrets  :)

    Last modified: Wednesday, August 18, 2010 10:36 PM | Sandra
  • Monday, August 23, 2010 9:31 PM
    Reply # 407439 on 402076
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    Sylph Chang wrote:We adopted a chinchilla this January, and Ever, who was 18 months old at that time, was enchanted by his soft, adorable appearance, and his hilarious, acrobatic antics.  He came pre-named, "Whiskers," but Ever couldn't pronounce the word "chinchilla," at the time, and started calling him "Choodly-da-da," which has been his name ever since!

    He was friendly and adventurous from the beginning, and would hop on her lap for a few seconds, only to hop off again, when she would try to hold on to him.  Over the months, she has grown to understand his ways, and learned how to entice him to come to her by offering him treats, rather than trying to grab him, as she used to do.  

    Just last week, she realized that if she lay down on the floor, face down, and put her head down, he would climb on top of her back, and make his way up to her head, where he would snuffle in her ears, and nibble them gently.  She giggles like crazy when he does this, and tries to hold still, so as not to frighten him away!  I think he has made a wonderful addition to our household, and to our family.

    Your little one sure is having a great time and learning fast to care for it.  Isn't that amazing!  Chinchillas are like hamsters, right?  Were you ever anxious that it will bite?
    Last modified: Monday, August 23, 2010 9:31 PM | Deleted user
  • Monday, August 23, 2010 11:38 PM
    Reply # 407512 on 405332
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    Sandra Athron wrote:

    My daughter is only 7 months old but she is very entertained by watching our two dogs.  She smiles and laughs at them all the time and follows their movements with great interest.

    I think pets are important to children as they teach the children how to be gentle and pets give them a chance to love living beings other than people.  When they are old enough, children can also learn responsibility by taking on some of the care of their pet(s). 

    The best benefit to having a pet may be that the child has some "one" they can confide in any time; someone who won't tell their secrets  :)

    That's a lovely insight. Pets are bestfriends, I agree. You said your baby watches the dogs.  Do you allow her to play with them at this time?

  • Thursday, August 26, 2010 11:53 AM
    Reply # 408873 on 407512
    Nina Sy wrote:
    Sandra Athron wrote:

    My daughter is only 7 months old but she is very entertained by watching our two dogs.  She smiles and laughs at them all the time and follows their movements with great interest.

    I think pets are important to children as they teach the children how to be gentle and pets give them a chance to love living beings other than people.  When they are old enough, children can also learn responsibility by taking on some of the care of their pet(s). 

    The best benefit to having a pet may be that the child has some "one" they can confide in any time; someone who won't tell their secrets  :)

    That's a lovely insight. Pets are bestfriends, I agree. You said your baby watches the dogs.  Do you allow her to play with them at this time?


    No, as she only wants to grab their fur and pull hard!  It isn't safe for her or the dogs at this time to let them play. 
    Last modified: Thursday, August 26, 2010 11:53 AM | Sandra
  • Thursday, August 26, 2010 9:02 PM
    Reply # 409206 on 407439
    Nina Sy wrote:
    Sylph Chang wrote:We adopted a chinchilla this January, and Ever, who was 18 months old at that time, was enchanted by his soft, adorable appearance, and his hilarious, acrobatic antics.  He came pre-named, "Whiskers," but Ever couldn't pronounce the word "chinchilla," at the time, and started calling him "Choodly-da-da," which has been his name ever since!

    He was friendly and adventurous from the beginning, and would hop on her lap for a few seconds, only to hop off again, when she would try to hold on to him.  Over the months, she has grown to understand his ways, and learned how to entice him to come to her by offering him treats, rather than trying to grab him, as she used to do.  

    Just last week, she realized that if she lay down on the floor, face down, and put her head down, he would climb on top of her back, and make his way up to her head, where he would snuffle in her ears, and nibble them gently.  She giggles like crazy when he does this, and tries to hold still, so as not to frighten him away!  I think he has made a wonderful addition to our household, and to our family.

    Your little one sure is having a great time and learning fast to care for it.  Isn't that amazing!  Chinchillas are like hamsters, right?  Were you ever anxious that it will bite?
    They are native to the Andes mountains, and are kind of like a cross between a squirrel, a rabbit, and a mouse.  They are about the size of a soccer ball, and bounce all around and run up the walls.  He's a real little ball of energy!

    He does mouth us occasionally, but though his teeth are razor-sharp, and his jaws are designed to crack seeds and nuts, he never hurts us.  It feels more like he is simply showing us that he has teeth!  He sort of rests his teeth on us, without applying any pressure.  Ever comes to me, smiling widely, and says, "The choodly-da-da bit me."  I know if he ever really bit her, she would not be smiling!!!

    He is a gentle creature, though full of hyperactive energy, and destructive tendencies.  I don't worry about him hurting us, but he sure does wreak havoc on the baseboards with those chisels he calls teeth!
  • Sunday, September 19, 2010 8:40 PM
    Reply # 421091 on 397996
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    How do you keep your pets from being, say, aggressive to your little one.  Did some training, perhaps?  Is your baby/toddler aware of its nature?

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