Hi Ladies,
I have a 6 year old girl ( she just celebrated her b'day :) ) For a long ti,e my husband and I both thought we just want one child. Then I chenged my mind and I wanted another one, then I changed my mind again, and I didn not want another one....When my husband said ok lets have another baby I got nervous and though OMG, NO way, no more diapers for me! AND Then lol ( know isit getting boring here ) I said one day ok that is it we are having another one! BOOM! We had my son Riley, As I said my daughter is 6 years old and my son is 17 months old. It is the best thing ever to have my kids! I am so glad we have 2 even though it is challenging and it seems I ignore my daugher a lot for my son...( he is a busy boy so I have to keep an eye on him at all times ) BUT My husband helps me and we help each other so we can both spend quality time with Chloe - like take her to the movies, or park time alone etc so she know she is love and we care. From day one my daugher adores her brother, never leaves him alone, cares for him like a little mommy and bugs him too lol....BUT I think and i know that a brother was the BEST gift I could give her! Any time I look at them i go teary ( yes when they play nice ) eyed and know I did the right thing by having another baby even though there are very challenging times sometimes!
The gae difference does not matter there are always challenges....But I am glad I have 2 kids. NO MORE though! Not for me! I also wanted a second baby since I do not have any family here. I am from Hungary, and on my husbands side ( canadian ) we only have my in-laws as family member and his borther and they all live far. So family is important to me since there are no aunts for my kids here and no ocousins etc.....a little brotther was perfect for her.
Tunde