LOL, I am not perfect, and come on who is perfect, my husband certainly is not! BUT he is great! Great with the kids, great helping me out! ANYTIME GREAT! Well, when we had our first child it was new to us and I can definetly see the change we both went through over the years...now with Riley my second child...I always get a lot ofh help from him He odes nto think for a minute is it MY job to take care of the house etc...but again it is my job, I chose to stay home with the so it is me who has to the chores. Mind you he does help me clear the table, vacum if I ask him and he is more than happy to do it! BUT only if I ask him. If I have a busy day with the kids he would willingly go the my groceries at night - myabe he just wants to escape, but hey, I do not have to. he does not clean, he tidies up, I WOULD RATHER load the dishwasher ( could not train him yet ) since he starts it half full! He does not cook and can not...lol...But seriously it is a compramise all the way trhough....we have a good balance, yeas sometimes I wish he was at home more, or helped me more but we are both doing a great jib. I am really not bosting here at all.We have bad days and good days, and sometimes I wish I had a cook a nanny etc because I think he does not help, but he does, We need to focus on the positive in our relationship and communicate all the time. Does not matter how old the kids are or how long have you been married, communications is the key. Yes I know people too who thinks and say theay have the perfect husband or relations hip but there is no such thing if you ask me. We can all work well together we just need to listen to each other. When you get marriead and decide to have kids it is not aonly the wfie who decides on it, it takes two people, and if you have a hubby who becomes a father make that person have responsibilites too. Change the diaper, pick up some toys, he does nto have to do everything but try to help out a little. And praise each other so you know they are appreciated, give some encouragment. We all have little fights, arguments but marriage is work...but it is fun! :)
There are people who are not real ( I am too honest and bold ) and will lie to your face. So just do not pay attention. Know that you and your partner are the best for each other and it is work , but make it fun, share thoughts talk a lot so you know how you both feel!
Hope my blabber makes sense.
ps: I scrapbook a lot, when I can anyway, so 2 weeks after Riley's birth ( I could barely move still ) My dear Hubby tried to get rid of me.. go out have some alone time! Yerah right, I am sore, I am tired, I am BF-ing! Leave me alone, will ya! I just want to stay home.
I love my husband...