What can I try to make my 6 months old baby sleep better?

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  • Monday, March 28, 2011 5:25 PM
    Message # 556406
    Hi Guys!

    I  have a six months old baby boy and he still wake up every two hours for night feedings! I am really exhausted, I tried all ( bath at night, cereal on his formula and more), but mothing seems to work :s

    Any help?

    Thank you girls!
  • Wednesday, March 30, 2011 12:05 PM
    Reply # 557725 on 556406
    Try to cut down on the feeding.  I believe at this age they don't need to be eating every 2 hours during the night.  Maybe try at the beginning to go in but not feed just comfort.  You can even get dad to go in (if available and willing).  
    When you decided you are ready, you can start with picking baby up and rocking, singing etc. then you can try just going in the room and (without picking up) rub the back or head, sing etc.

    I was having the exact same problem.  When my son was 7.5 months old he was still waking up and it just kept getting worse and worse.  It started with every 2 hours and then 1 hour and even at one point every half and hour.  Then his doctor said to me, he is not hungry he just wants you.  

    I ended up doing the Ferber method and it work for us amazing.  I first 2 nights were the hardest but by the 3rd night I noticed a huge improvement and by the 4th night he was sleeping through the night (from around 8:15-7:00).  I am so glad i finally decided to do it.

    I also have a video monitor which is a huge help as which he is crying I can see him to make sure he is safe.



  • Wednesday, March 30, 2011 10:29 PM
    Reply # 558152 on 557725
    Lisa wrote: Try to cut down on the feeding.  I believe at this age they don't need to be eating every 2 hours during the night.  Maybe try at the beginning to go in but not feed just comfort.  You can even get dad to go in (if available and willing).  
    When you decided you are ready, you can start with picking baby up and rocking, singing etc. then you can try just going in the room and (without picking up) rub the back or head, sing etc.

    I was having the exact same problem.  When my son was 7.5 months old he was still waking up and it just kept getting worse and worse.  It started with every 2 hours and then 1 hour and even at one point every half and hour.  Then his doctor said to me, he is not hungry he just wants you.  

    I ended up doing the Ferber method and it work for us amazing.  I first 2 nights were the hardest but by the 3rd night I noticed a huge improvement and by the 4th night he was sleeping through the night (from around 8:15-7:00).  I am so glad i finally decided to do it.

    I also have a video monitor which is a huge help as which he is crying I can see him to make sure he is safe.




    Thank you so much Lisa,

    I actually was thinking of trying Ferber but my husband does not like the idea.

    I am feeling so exhausted, so I am going to start trying by not pick him up at all times but i will probably pat him till he falls sleep and see if that works a bit.

    Few nights ago he was waking up every half an hour and last night from five o'clock he was doing exactly the same.

    I hope my baby start to sleep like yours soon!

    Thanks a million.


  • Thursday, March 31, 2011 6:45 AM
    Reply # 558316 on 556406
    I know how you feel.
    I was getting no sleep and my son was getting no sleep and it just had to stop.

    It took me a while to get up enough courage and strength to do the Ferber method but was so glad when i did it.

    My best advise is get a video monitor if you don't have one.  I only had a audio monitor the first 7 months.  The video monitor is the best thing I bought to date and my son is 23 months now and i still love it.

    Also, if you decide to do the Ferber method, it will be extremely hard.  The hardest thing I have ever had to do but well worth it in the end.  Just don't give up or give in. 

    Good Luck!
    Lisa


  • Thursday, March 31, 2011 10:12 AM
    Reply # 558441 on 556406
    I do have a video monitor, Thank God for them! they are a big help! :)

    Going to start on the weekend as is less pressure for both of us :)

    Thank you so much for you help, this forum is a great help!
  • Monday, April 04, 2011 7:47 PM
    Reply # 564255 on 556406

    I was having the same issues with my LO and couldn't do it anymore. So I too did the Ferber method. It was the hardest thing that I have had to do thus far but I am so thankful that I stuck with it. It took 4 hard and long days and nights, but she finally got it. She's almost 9 months old now and has been sleeping from 7pm-7am for more than 2 months now. One peice of advice that I can offer is if you are going to do it, you need to stick with it in order for it to work. It's not fair if you do it one night and then the next next rock, nurse, sing etc your LO to sleeep, consistency is the best, they are smarter than we think. Good luck with it and just remember its harder for us to hear them cry then it is for them to cry :)

     

  • Monday, April 11, 2011 7:44 PM
    Reply # 568658 on 556406
    My son is 8.5 months old and was waking often throughout the night to feed until we started Ferber at about 6.5 months.  It's the best thing we ever did.  Contrary to what some people say, it's not simply letting your child "cry it out". It's really a prolonged waiting approach.  You can go in and comfort your child at increasing intervals.  It is tiring, just like the previous posts mentioned, but so is waking up to feed throughout the night when your child is 6.5 months old!  I would highly recommend it. Good luck!
  • Tuesday, April 12, 2011 6:26 PM
    Reply # 569362 on 556406
    Thanks to all guys!

    Actually I been trying somehow the ferber method and last night for the first time my baby slept from 9 till 3am after that he went all the way till 7.

    i am trying to give at least 1 bottle at night but I am gradually reducing the ounces till he gets use to it.


    I think this is slowly working! thank you for all your support!
  • Monday, April 18, 2011 4:00 AM
    Reply # 572714 on 556406
    I did not see mention in your note whether you are giving him solids yet, or how much.  For our LO, it made a huge difference to her night sleep when we started feeding her 3 meals a day.  They may be small ones at first, but I believe she actually was hungry for solids and more than just a bit in the formula would have satisfied. Could be just my experience though.
  • Monday, April 18, 2011 1:23 PM
    Reply # 572928 on 556406
    Dar
    I did the 3 solid meals, dream feeding (at about 11pm each night) and the Ferber method together when my son was about 7 months old. That combination did the trick for me.

    Try to be consistent and Good luck!
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