The 1/2 hour counts, as that was the total time of my pushing phase.

Being at home was great. I showered a million times, I played music, and had candles lit. I tried for a water birth, but the pool in the living-room couldn't be kept warm enough for me. I ended up in the living room on a moon-shaped low-birthing stool. My midwife showed me my baby being born with a mirror, and my partner held me up (as I was beyond exhausted by that time). An amazing midwife is key. IF you really want a home birth, you have to ask the right questions.

My second birth didn't go as planned. I had nothing packed for the hospital, and we didn't even have the car-seat installed! My midwife gave me a time-limit, even though it was against my birth-plan instructions. I felt like she 'gave-up' on me. (I had dilated 1cm more from 4cm in a 12 hour time period). My body just didn't want to dilate! We tried everything...walking up and down double stairs (in active labour)!!! from the bath, to the shower, to the bed, to the big-ball...frustrating. I had no energy, and didn't want to eat, as I had vomited with some stronger contractions.

I grieved my 2nd birth, as I believed I would only have another home birth. It was a hard pill for me to swallow. I ended up in the hospital, being induced, taking the epidural, and giving a 'vaginal' birth...NOT a 'natural' birth...as so many like to state it. I felt like a failure.

I've shared my stories with many. Bear this in mind, your child chooses you...and also chooses how to come into this place.

Keep an open mind, but be strong and believe your body was made to birth! All the best to you and your sweet new baby!