Yeah, I think I'm a bit 'stern' about keeping to my son's schedule with my husband. I think may be husbands don't like schedules very much to start with,and they may not understand how important routines are for young kids. As soon as we detour slightly from my son's routine, he gets really cranky. But my husband couldn't understand that my son was cranky because of the deviation from the routine, no matter how many times I told him!